Relationships…

Busisiwe Mahoko
2 min readFeb 16, 2022

A relationship is a connection between two or more people, and the nature of this connection might be friendly, romantic, sexual, etc. We can also describe a relationship as an association between individuals that may range from short-term to long-term and close to distant.

We always see the relationship between two lovers through the lens of society, which is why it has become a staple of fiction. It’s also because we as humans are inherently voyeuristic and enjoy reading about other people’s relationships, but that’s another story for another time.

How a man loves a woman differs from how a woman loves a man. A man may love his woman with dominant passion, but he is less likely to love her passionately in the way that she needs him to love her. She wants him to be attentive and thoughtful of her needs, particularly when it comes to physical intimacy.

My girlfriends say: A woman wants her man to know what pleases her sexually and be willing to do those things for her because he loves her and wants to please her. My male friends say: A man’s best friend is his mother. From the time he is a baby, she takes care of him and tells him what to do. She worries about him, scolds him, and loves him more than anyone else in the world could ever love him. And when he has a wife and children of his own, they become his best friends too. They take care of him just like his mother. If you’re married, this is the time to look at your relationship with your spouse. You may want to discuss and examine the emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects of your marriage.

It’s a good time to work on resolving conflicts or strengthening your marriage in other ways. If you’re still in the dating phase, tell your partner that you want to take a break from sex for a while. It’s possible he or she will be relieved and agree. If not, clarify that you’re not trying to put pressure on them; rather, you just need some time away from the act of intercourse itself.

If you’re in a long-term relationship and you feel like the spark has gone out of your sex life, talk about it with your partner. Be honest about what feels good. If you’re single, this is a good time to explore what it means to be single and figure out how you can use that experience to understand who you are as a person.

Conclusion: Relationships are a difficult subject to write about because there is so much material out there. As the featured author in this blog post, I’ve done my best to provide you with a list of facts that will both educate and inspire. Hopefully, these relationship facts have been helpful! Do you have questions or comments? Feel free to leave them below and we’ll get back to you as soon as possible.

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Busisiwe Mahoko

A visionary, humanitarian and altruist. An author of 34 books, screenwriter, motivator, and aspiring-filmmaker. She has also penned 3500 life-giving quotes.